Gulnaz Ahmed
SEPARATION ,sounds very simple word as leaving something or someone but actually when it comes into action its very deep and leaves sadness, loneliness, emptiness , grief, feeling of failure and some times guilt, for instance when we lose our loved ones , precious stuff , job, assets or valuables.
But on the positive side it also brings peace, happiness, and we feel safe and protected.
You must be thinking how one can be in peace or protected by separating from part or peice of his or her life ?
The answer is within us , we can experience it by becoming little bold, strong, willing to change and learn to live different.
If we look into our lives, we are polluted our minds by negative thoughts ,and bodies by bad habbits or lifestyles. We have gathered hurtful influences around us, fight useless battles and waste energy on unnecessary arguments of What, Why, But and If. Engaged in criticism and finding flaws in people.
Say YES to please others and avoid to say SORRY to please our ego. Impressed by materials and money , busy in constant race of achievements, chasing unrealistic goals, and finding peace in man-made world. We value ourselves by opinion of other’s .
Inorder to bring peace, happiness, and to be safe and protected we have to separate from all these ,it could be hard and difficult but not impossible. We just need to think and act little different, change our prospective towards life and poeople, make some priorities and shift the view how we see the world. We need to learn to live the new way .
We have to refrain our selves from all unnecessary fights and arguments which steal our peace and leave nothing but envy or enmity. We learn to find positive into every hardship and difficulty. Remove bad influential people from lives who bring our moral down ,stay away from environment which make us think or engage into unrealistic goals and activities instead try to make small and achievable goals so we feel proud and happy whem accomplished. Money can resolve many problems and issues but can’t buy happines. Be content, enjoy what we have and not to be tempted to get what others have and be part of non ending , exhausting race of greed.
Value ourselves based on our own qualities and not by other’s opinions and try to do what make us happy and comfortable. Need to find peace in nature and spirituality, believe in ourselves and always have faith.
We have to minimize, What, Why, But, and If from our lives and maximize Thanks, Sorry, and Please to bring love and harmony . We need to separate our selves from jealousy, anger, hate and grudges to be peaceful , protect our mind and soul from negativity and detach from polluted and toxic environment of greed and animosity around us.
Be happy, peaceful and protected .
Jazakumallah khair.
